Men are afraid of commitments
This is general truth! Men are afraid of commitments, because that would mean assuming responsibilities for another extra person. In other words, they are too selfish to care for the other person in a relationship. They see themselves as being the centre of the universe, and everything and everybody should obey their rules. Now, that may seem too harsh, but it’s true! You don’t believe me? Try and see the statistics. They clearly show that the number of marriages dropped for the last few years, not only in America, but all over the world!
Freedom versus marriage
This is the main issue here, since men tend to compare marriage with the loss of their independence. When accepting a relationship as being legal, men instantly feel they are trapped. It means lose of freedom, more responsibilities and for most of them, the worst tragedy, is that they have to commit to one person, for the rest of their lives.
So, therefore, even on dating sites, you can see lots of men that are just looking for adventures or one night stands. Some even specify that on their profile. But the worst are those who don’t admit it. They talk to you, ask you out on several dates, let you believe that everything is just wonderful, but if you’re paying some attention around you, they continue to be active on dating sites. For them the worst fear is loosing the ability of being macho, of giving up sexual variety in exchange for a lifetime with only one partner.
Buy a dog and a TV!
So, as harsh as I might seem, is only reality spoken. Men are afraid of loosing their freedom; they fear they have to do everything a woman’s way for the rest of his life. Usually, these men are having bad opinions about themselves; they have complexes and fear to confront them.
For them I have one advice: buy a TV and a dog! You can control the TV the way you like, and a dog won’t come out of your word!
Men ARE NOT afraid of commitment. They ARE afraid of marriage…….and it’s not cause a loss of freedom.
It’s cause we get fucked for the rest of our life in the divorce. If a man is lucky he will only lose half of everything he has. If he’s unlucky he may lose more and have alimony payments to the wife. And this doesn’t even consider some crazed vendetta from the ex where she calls his work and tries her best to get him fired. go through his garbage, sleep with his friends etc, etc. I haven’t even touched children.
Getting married doesn’t mean the end of one night stands, that’s called working late. Men don’t get married because of the very real prospects of getting screwed in a divorce and the fact that marriage is meaningless. Men realize that marriage does nothing but give some chick access to your finances.
You must be really bitter about a lack there of or a past marriage…I don’t under stand though…..every guy I know is looking for chick that wants flowers and dinner all the time won’t buy her guy a case of beer and he can forget about kinky sex…gee where can I find a gem like that.
To paraphrase a chick commedian “You expect a guy to worship you just for being allowed in close proximity to your pussy.” Guys don’t think like that anymore….sorry all we have to do is go to a bar or club and there are many more women that don’t expect that of us there.